(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay, so there's this girl I've liked since the 6th grade (now in 9th) and we've been talking since then and we've even been talking about getting married and shit(I know, I'm only in the 9th grade).. I've asked her out twice, or maybe three times, but she always says she doesn't want a boyfriend. Now, I've started to take that in and we hang out almost everyday after school.. But here comes the other problem.. There's this other guy that gets in the way of us two.. Like tonight for example, me and her were hanging out at her best friend's house and he started texting her and told her to come over to his house to shoot his paintball gun with him. She wanted me to go with her over there so I did.. The next thing I know there were both wrestling with each other and to me, I call that flirting. So I left out of frustration.. My question is, what should I do with this guy? I don't want to ask her out, I don't want to get shot down.. I come to you guys for advise, not to get made fun of or any other thing you guys could direct this into..

Ok, lay out everything you feel about her. That's definately what you should do buddy. Because if you don't, then you will keep feeling stressed out and waiting for that one moment. Better find out what is going on in her head, or you'll keep tormenting yourself for a while.

Good luck bud

well maybe, if your going to this other dudes house maybe you can grab her hand "in a romantic way" and you can hold hands walking. then when this guy opens his door he will think " omg nowai there going out me lay 0ff" and also the girl might like "woot im holding hands .. i like this.." and maybe give her a kiss on the cheek when shes going home

Well. I'd say just hold back until she actually feels something. Like Outsider said, post a pic of both of you.

If you do talk to her about this tell us how it goes and post some pics

In your situation I would continue hanging out with her and flirting. But like someone said before you might be in a situation in which she thinks of as only a friend an nothing else. But If I were I would test that by trying to hook up with her. It can risk your entire friendship but if you really like her than you should be willing to take that chance.

Like I said you might risk your friendship but thats a chance I would take.

I think you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel about her.
but,
i believe that once in the "best friend" zone always in the best friend zone

After tonight, I think everything is all good. The guy was trying to hit up on some other girl tonight, while in the meantime, me and her were cuddling at her best friend's house xD. I think that the guy just wants some pussy, as he's a virgin.. Tonight went really well with me and her. Everyone just hopes it will continue.