(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay, so there's this girl I've liked since the 6th grade (now in 9th) and we've been talking since then and we've even been talking about getting married and shit(I know, I'm only in the 9th grade).. I've asked her out twice, or maybe three times, but she always says she doesn't want a boyfriend. Now, I've started to take that in and we hang out almost everyday after school.. But here comes the other problem.. There's this other guy that gets in the way of us two.. Like tonight for example, me and her were hanging out at her best friend's house and he started texting her and told her to come over to his house to shoot his paintball gun with him. She wanted me to go with her over there so I did.. The next thing I know there were both wrestling with each other and to me, I call that flirting. So I left out of frustration.. My question is, what should I do with this guy? I don't want to ask her out, I don't want to get shot down.. I come to you guys for advise, not to get made fun of or any other thing you guys could direct this into..

Thanks. I'm going to confront her within the next 24 hours about all of this.. I'm kinda nervous.. Thanks for all of the support guys.

Well last year really liked this girl and iit turns out she liked me too the only thing is I was a little shy to talk to her. Halfway through the year she started going out with the macho man of the school who was also my friend. The thing is after the started going out she told me she used to like me. I don't know if this helped but if I were you I wouldn't wait

Thank you for this. I know what you're saying. I used to be seriously shy around her. But now I just act myself and we have great times together.. I'm not going to wait terribly long. I'm going to continue hang out with her as much as I can, and keep her from the other guy xD..

Hopefully he isn't the macho man everyone likes lol

Haha no he's not. I'm pretty sure I look better than him, clean up better than him. I mean he dips. And I wouldn't think that's too attractive to a girl..

Yeah but does she know that he does?

Yea. I took her home, and I was like
"Matt(that's the guy's name) dips, ya know?"
"Yea, I know"
"Does that smell good?"
"No"
"Does that taste good?(they haven't kissed, I was just trying to make a point)"
"No"
"Does that look good?"
"No"
"Okay then.."

-Point Proven.

okay I was just wondering if she knew