Post: Girl Problem..
02-06-2009, 02:52 AM #1
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay, so there's this girl I've liked since the 6th grade (now in 9th) and we've been talking since then and we've even been talking about getting married and shit(I know, I'm only in the 9th grade).. I've asked her out twice, or maybe three times, but she always says she doesn't want a boyfriend. Now, I've started to take that in and we hang out almost everyday after school.. But here comes the other problem.. There's this other guy that gets in the way of us two.. Like tonight for example, me and her were hanging out at her best friend's house and he started texting her and told her to come over to his house to shoot his paintball gun with him. She wanted me to go with her over there so I did.. The next thing I know there were both wrestling with each other and to me, I call that flirting. So I left out of frustration.. My question is, what should I do with this guy? I don't want to ask her out, I don't want to get shot down.. I come to you guys for advise, not to get made fun of or any other thing you guys could direct this into..
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02-07-2009, 06:23 AM #29
drunkenrepublicn
NGU Retired Staff
Originally posted by JTinsley93 View Post
After tonight, I think everything is all good. The guy was trying to hit up on some other girl tonight, while in the meantime, me and her were cuddling at her best friend's house xD. I think that the guy just wants some pussy, as he's a virgin.. Tonight went really well with me and her. Everyone just hopes it will continue. Smile


thats my boy--proud of youSmile^
02-09-2009, 06:26 PM #30
Fierceknucks
Former Staff
First off, Don't listen to anything that anyone else posted on this thread.

Your too far into the friend zone with this chick, it's probably a lost cause.

Your only options are to make god damn sure she knows what you want, and make it official. If you don't do that, you might as well give up now, and move on. In about 5-7 years, you'll understand why you need to do this. Trust me on this one.
02-09-2009, 11:05 PM #31
Bitches are tricks. **** with her head, forreal. Stop talking to her, give her no attention, when she texts you tell her your busy you'll text her later and never do ect. She will crack it works every time. You don't want her to think she has you on a leash.

Once she starts talking to you again(maybe like a week after not saying a word to her) start talking to her again, but act like you don't want to talk.(speak short with her and make sure she talks to you first) If she does talk to you then you know you have her. Thats when you need to step up your game and not only be nice to her but treat her better than the next guy can.

and after all that, tell her you dont want a girlfriend and you just wanna be hookup buddies so there are no strings attached and you can get with her+ any other bitch you feel like without the guilt.

I call that the guide to bein a playa


Lol trust me take this advice now, it will save you a few years of frustration lol.
02-09-2009, 11:28 PM #32
Originally posted by mAn View Post
Bitches are tricks. **** with her head, forreal. Stop talking to her, give her no attention, when she texts you tell her your busy you'll text her later and never do ect. She will crack it works every time. You don't want her to think she has you on a leash.

Once she starts talking to you again(maybe like a week after not saying a word to her) start talking to her again, but act like you don't want to talk.(speak short with her and make sure she talks to you first) If she does talk to you then you know you have her. Thats when you need to step up your game and not only be nice to her but treat her better than the next guy can.

and after all that, tell her you dont want a girlfriend and you just wanna be hookup buddies so there are no strings attached and you can get with her+ any other bitch you feel like without the guilt.

I call that the guide to bein a playa


Lol trust me take this advice now, it will save you a few years of frustration lol.

I agree..with the first paragraph. ha. I do that to my girlfriend a lot, like if we are hanging out and she isn't talking to me much or something. I just like walk away and go do something else, by myself. When she finds me we make sexy-time.

last sentence is more of a wish :/
02-09-2009, 11:57 PM #33
thats actually 100% true works like a charm, stopped texting this girl, couple days later shes like hey havnt talked to you in a while, i miss talking to you haha exactly like you said works like a charm
02-15-2009, 05:48 PM #34
SeArGaNt-KoCk
B.O.D figure that out :p
well see. i'll tell ya a story that worked. but got me into trouble because i'm a retard.

me and this girl was talking. i'm a freshmen and she's a junior. and we don't have any classes together so its kind of hard to talk to her. so i took the "ignore to be adored" approach, (explained by mike). after about 1 week. she started trying to find me all the time. before school. during. after. all the time. we started talking alot. then she asked me if she could come over that weekend. i talked to meh parents. they said it was ok. well. she came over around 4pm. we went up to my room and layed on my bed. started watching a movie. it was the titanic. and we all know the part in that movie where, as coltz said, they make sexy-time. lmao. well. that got us going. and one thing led to another. NO. we didn't go all the way. but we went pretty far. well, my father came up into my room to tell me that it was time to take her home and. well....... yea. i think you know what happend. :/ extremely awkward. but. i didn't get into huge trouble at all. i was very surprised. anywas, this is just my story. and it worked out perfactly. i would take this approach.
02-15-2009, 07:58 PM #35
Lol yeah like sarge said rent the titanic movie
02-16-2009, 04:39 PM #36
Cragith
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This exactly the same thing happening with me right now :O

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