Originally posted by Vaner
You are wrong, they are affecting the child's life.
Alright, let's take a step back here.
Homosexual couples are more than capable of providing a loving, healthy lifestyle for children, as has been proven time and time again. I don't even know why I have to explain it the way I just did. Just because the parents may be gay doesn't mean the kids going to automatically be gay, either. And even if the kid turned out gay, why the hell does the matter? Additionally, I
know families where this is the case (excluding the homosexual kid thing), and I know heterosexual couples that neglect the SHIT out of their kids. It has NOTHING to do with sexuality. It has to do with the people (in this case the parents) in general. If you're fit to be a parent in accordance with society's standards, you're fit to be a parent in accordance to society's standards. And I'm not referring to sexual orientation here.
Second, the only problems that happen will happen because no one has the god-damned balls to stand up for kids with homosexual parents when they're being bullied. You all claim you're open-minded, but you have to "think about the children". Then why the hell aren't YOU thinking about the children? Instead of being against it "because the kid(s) would have a hard time growing up", maybe you should get off your ass and do something about it. Sitting around and denying homosexuals their right to adopt because you're too scared isn't fair at all. Why deny the kids a great home? The kids I know NEVER get bullied, they're healthy kids; into sports, have lots of friends, parents/adults love them, etc.
Stop assuming things are the same everywhere, and when things aren't looking good for a certain group of people, take
action. Any other kid that was getting bullied, I bet you'd be damn quick to help. But "oh, this kid's parents are gay. Nope! It's not worth the backlash."
Furthermore,
prove to me there's something unnatural about it. Prove to me that it NEVER happens in nature. Oh... you can't. I could certainly show you it does, though.
(This isn't directed at you Vaner, please don't take it personally. I went to reply to your comment, and things just flowed out. Dx)
/rant