(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Important note: This is a very touchy subject to some people and rightfully so. Whilst negative comments about any given sexuality are OK, pointless and unnecessary bashing of other people's sexuality will not be tolerated. Once you cross this line your post(s) will be deleted and you will be warned, and if you persist you will be punished for flaming. I know this is a very strongly worded warning, however I feel given the thread topic it's utterly necessary.


Anyway, onto the debate itself- sexuality. There are many different labels of sexuality, so I'd thought I'd list them below(largely C/P to save time, if I missed any or falsely described anything let me know):

• Heterosexuality- Is the sexual attraction between members of the opposite sexes such as a man attracted to a woman and vice-versa.
  
• Homosexuality- is the sexual attraction between members of the same sexes such as man to man and woman to woman.
  
• Bisexuality- Is the sexual attraction to both the opposite and same sexes such as man to man and man to woman, woman to woman and woman to man.
  
• Asexuality- Is also known as nonsexuality which is the lack of sexual attraction and sexual interest towards others.
  
• Polysexuality- Is the sexual attraction to more than one gender but do not wish to be known as bisexual as it implies that there are only two binary sexes, do not confuse this with pansexuality ('pan' meaning all) and ('poly' meaning many).
  
• Pansexuality- Is the sexual attraction towards people regardless of gender also known as omnisexuality. Some pansexuals refer to themselves as gender blind as to them gender is insignificant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
  
• Transexualism- Is when a person identifies themselves as a certain sex different from their own biological one. For example a person may be born male, and is uncomfortable with their gender as a male and changes to a female, or vice-versa.
  

Personally I'm heterosexual, however I have no problems with other people expressing their own sexuality and being who they really are.

Feel free to comment below and be honest, then hopefully this thread can be used to maturely discuss sexuality away from the nonsense you so often see elsewhere

Just deleted about 5 or 6 posts, let's not allow any arguments to derail the thread guys!

And @TC that is indeed an interesting question. Personally as a heterosexual I do find great pleasurep) in watching lesbian porn, but errr... not sure what to add. Maybe it's just the 'ME WANT' part of the brain talking again? You must login or register to view this content.

I honestly switch between the two, depending on my mood it seems. My grammar isn't very consistent. Thanks for the clarification. :p

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I don't think it's fair to warn people over their opinion. You asked...

Anyway, I hate gays. Not gays, but gays. To me there are two types of gays. The ones who like men and go about normal days without saying anything about it, and the ones who flaunt the fact they are gay. The ones who act like a ****, floating around with high pitched voices that are most likely fake. Basically people like Louis Spence. People that act like that to show they are gay. Then you have the women who dress and act like men. There is no need for any of that. If you like the same sex, go for it, but is there really a need to flaunt it like that? I recently found out Neil Patrick Harris is gay, married and wants children. I had no idea he was until I read about it. He doesn't have a "gay" voice, and even though he's an actor, doesn't come off as gay. Then take one look at Louis Spence and you instantly know he's gay.

They're the people I hate, there is no need to flaunt it. Do what you want in your own time. I would hate it if they came on to me as well.

Honestly, most gay people dislike what we call the flaming homosexual. Quite frankly, my opinion has always been this, "How the hell are straight people ever supposed to feel comfortable with gay people if you're acting like the S&M rainbow apocalypse is coming?!"

Really though, the overly camp, flaming homosexual queen bloke is nothing more than a stereotype. I know many gay guys and while they are genuinely more feminine, they're not stupidly camp. I've never yet known an actual gay guy who talks like the gay bloke in Will and Grace whilst wearing over-tight hot pink t-shirts saying "I Kiss Boyz", and I really wish Hollywood would stop perpetuating this. I'd also like to point out that I'm anti-'Gay Pride' for this same reason. The whole point of Gay Pride is to try to make people realise that gay people are just like straight people and to make straight people feel comfortable around gay people when they realise they're no different when it comes down to it... and how do they achieve this, by marching down the street in boy-toy leather gear, waving little rainbow flags and singing "It's raining men". NO!!! Wrong Answer!!!

One thing I will say though is your so called "hatred" is rather worrying. Are you really so insecure around gay guys that you think they all want to rape your arse? Because that's how you're acting, and it is insulting. If a gay guy comes on to you, tell him you're straight and he'll either do one of two things, make a flirty comment and laugh it off to save his pride then make an excuse to leave, or apologise excessively and try to leave quickly. The proper response is to be flattered, he thinks you look hot, which means you're probably hot... that's a good thing isn't it? Surely that means women will think you're hot too. If you're so uncomfortable around gay people consider this, maybe you have the problem, not them. Also, one last point, "straight" men who act defensive at the idea of gay men chatting them up, are usually gay themselves but so far back in the closet they're in fúcking Narnia... think about it.

I have 'known' a gay person that acted like the ones I described. I wrote it like 'known' because I seen him around nearly everyday. One other, people called him gay, but I thought they were joking until I asked him. He flaunted it a little, high pitched voice, but nothing over the top like the first one.

I don't hate the normal ones who don't flaunt, and honestly I wouldn't know if it wasn't for them telling me. I never said I hate gays, but the ones who flaunt it like I have mentioned. I couldn't care less if they were gay, but like I said, I wouldn't like it if they came onto me. I also wouldn't care if they said I was "hot" and I would feel comfortable getting naked in front of them, but like I have said, as long as they don't make a move. They can say whatever they want about my penis or looks, but saying is all I am comfortable with.

So... if you're in a club, chatting to a guy who you're getting on with and he moves in to kiss you, because he's had a couple of drinks and has misread your friendly actions as interest... how do you act. For him he genuinely thought you where interested and probably hinted that he was gay but you missed it (also the who high voice and strange body language is sort of a way gay men use to make sure they don't accidentally chat-up straight men as they tend to get beaten up for that). Would you be OK with him, just back away, explain you're straight and he's just got the wrong idea, or would you be offended and angry, and if so, why?

The reason I ask is this is a very real issue for non-straight people who are single. They risk getting the shit kicked out of them every time they go "out on the pull", because there's no such thing as a reliable "gaydar" and if you outright ask a straight guy, "are you gay?" as a lot of the time that's worse, you may as well just go up and say "you're a cúnt and like to fúck dead bodies". This is something the casual homophobe doesn't consider. I name people that because they're people who claim to be OK with gay people, but if a gay guy comes on to them innocently they turn violent and there's a lot more out there than people realise. These people are no different to the anti-gay protesters in the long run, because when it comes down to it they're still punching gay people for daring to give them a compliment and I find that rather sad...

Luckily I'm 6' 6" and over 300lbs so I've never had a straight guy threaten me for my sexuality, it's not usually smart to pick a fight with the one guy in the place that looks like a strategically shaved gorilla, but then I also don't tend to go "out on the pull". I have however had guys being really nervous around me because they're afraid that if I'm straight, and they offend me, it could turn violent, and that's rather upsetting really.

If I didn't know him and met him at a bar and was chatting too each other then made a move, I don't think I would be angry and would just tell him I'm not gay. Seeing as it has never happened, I don't know how I would actually react, but I'm not a violent person in the first place and takes a lot to wind me up that I want to punch someone. However, if they knew I wasn't gay and still tried to make a move, then I would be angry.

Heterosexual, honestly as long as I am not being hit on or I don't see the sexual acts between two people of the same sex, I am alright. (When I say see, I mean in person).

Really, should it matter if people like someone of the same sex, we are a planet of billions of humans, this might actually help with the reduction of the human population. + we all die eventually, so does it matter that you did not continue your genetics.