(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); hey guys. for almost 2 months now I've been seeing a girl. she's great and we met through work. we both got dumped around the same time and when talking about it and getting to know each other we had chemistry and started seeing each other. Yesterday her ex, let's call him John, text her and asked her has she been seeing anyone and she said me. He then text her back with claims that he will "carry his head off" and "beat the f*%k out of" aimed at me also calling me a sly rat and that if he sees me he "won't be able to control myself".

here's the problem. I'm not by any means a fighter. and this guy is. he's been cautioned by police for assault and is a pretty hard guy. I'm not sure how to deal with this guy. any advice?

Just try to avoid him and in worst case scenario carry a knife or whatever, self defense wont get you in jail

shoot him with a gun and make an example out of him make sure you wear a ballaclava and clown shoes im deadly serious

Maybe have her explain to him shes done with him and he needs to leave you both alone ...or this seems like its gunna get ugly
(Dont see why shes still texting with her ex)

Ignore him, hes going through his tough guy phase in order to win her back

My uncle did that and was attacked and beat and used the knife which cut a 2 inch stab wound and my uncle got life 12year sentence in prison for premeditated murder due to the fact he was carrying the weapon. For that reason I dont think carrying a weapon is the best idea.

He's what I'd describe as a weed but he can fight. I don't know if I could hold my own against him but its 2015... no such thing as a 1v1 these days. Dicks like him walk in groups.

If the worst comes to the worst inform the police it may seem like a shit thing to inform them about but he's making threats towards you and I think that could be classed as intimidation.

As I said just ignore him

Murder him and his family