(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); hey guys. for almost 2 months now I've been seeing a girl. she's great and we met through work. we both got dumped around the same time and when talking about it and getting to know each other we had chemistry and started seeing each other. Yesterday her ex, let's call him John, text her and asked her has she been seeing anyone and she said me. He then text her back with claims that he will "carry his head off" and "beat the f*%k out of" aimed at me also calling me a sly rat and that if he sees me he "won't be able to control myself".

here's the problem. I'm not by any means a fighter. and this guy is. he's been cautioned by police for assault and is a pretty hard guy. I'm not sure how to deal with this guy. any advice?

I was considering that. I told my girl to send my screenshots of the threats so if he does hit me and I have those that is classified as premeditated assault and possible GBH.

Fight him... but make sure you have on Lightweight so you can mover fast and dead silence to be stealthy

Yea that's good make sure to keep a lot of evidence encase he hits you

I would say front him out, i know that you are not a fighter but if you think you really like this girl then maybe thats what you got to do...fight for her.

If you pussy out then that shit can come back into your mind & make you feel more shit than if you took a good kicking

Find out how much of a fucker he is... if you find out he carries a knife or weapons don't do any of the stuff i just said above.

You could go to the police but i doubt they would do much, if you see him in the street try to get someone to film it on there phone so if he wacks you you have evidence, then mybe you could get a restraining order of something

Other thing you could do is to get someone to sort him out/scare him for you.

Or try not to go to places he or his mates go, but ur bound to bump into him at some point.

Personalty i would fight him, or grab him on the streat & beat the shit out of him with a Pickaxe handle, but thats not for everyone..........

Just knock him the fuck out

kill him.

Worst that happens is he beats you up lol. Or just say she comes with too much baggage.

Simply start lifting bro!

Well, it's not necessarily the fact that he carried a weapon, but possibly the political ideology of the state in which he resided at the time. If you live in a state where you can get a concealed carry permit and you're old enough, get it. Then buy a nice pistol, preferably one you like, and isn't overly expensive, and has affordable ammo. Usually 9mm and .45 ACP fall into this category. You'll definitely want to get a more defensive round, I'd recommend Hydra-Shoks. Granted this would be for a worse case scenario, if no matter how hard you try, you cannot manage to go anywhere without being in fear of your life etc.

Restraining orders can only do so much, if this guy is as much as an asshole as it sounds like he is, a piece of paper and a three to five minute response time from the police isn't going to be beneficial.