Post: Sexuality
10-16-2011, 04:46 PM #1
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Anyway, onto the debate itself- sexuality. There are many different labels of sexuality, so I'd thought I'd list them below(largely C/P to save time, if I missed any or falsely described anything let me know):

  • Heterosexuality- Is the sexual attraction between members of the opposite sexes such as a man attracted to a woman and vice-versa.
  • Homosexuality- is the sexual attraction between members of the same sexes such as man to man and woman to woman.
  • Bisexuality- Is the sexual attraction to both the opposite and same sexes such as man to man and man to woman, woman to woman and woman to man.
  • Asexuality- Is also known as nonsexuality which is the lack of sexual attraction and sexual interest towards others.
  • Polysexuality- Is the sexual attraction to more than one gender but do not wish to be known as bisexual as it implies that there are only two binary sexes, do not confuse this with pansexuality ('pan' meaning all) and ('poly' meaning many).
  • Pansexuality- Is the sexual attraction towards people regardless of gender also known as omnisexuality. Some pansexuals refer to themselves as gender blind as to them gender is insignificant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
  • Transexualism- Is when a person identifies themselves as a certain sex different from their own biological one. For example a person may be born male, and is uncomfortable with their gender as a male and changes to a female, or vice-versa.

Personally I'm heterosexual, however I have no problems with other people expressing their own sexuality and being who they really are.

Feel free to comment below and be honest, then hopefully this thread can be used to maturely discuss sexuality away from the nonsense you so often see elsewhere Smile
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03-05-2013, 05:57 AM #209
GDP
"Child please..." - C. Johnson
Just4hax:

Look, I'm not going to go into the details of this and that, to offer a rebuttal to your post. I think I've made myself clear on my stance. What I will elaborate on is this point (which, you and alot of other members probably won't understand): There are things that are in place by our elders, rules and guidelines that they've set forth for us, that we don't understand. I associate that lack of understanding with a modern society of "Know-It-Alls", myself. Anyway, their message...the purpose for their message...gets lost. But make no mistake about it, there was a reason for those "bad" rules. And if we TOTALLY DISPELL those rules into the wind, especially when we don't have a firm grasp on WHY those rules were there in the first place...CHAOS. Chaose is what will be spawned. I'll give you an example of CHAOS, right here in our neighborhood: NGU. Now I'm brand-new to NGU, and not an internet/twitter junkie at all. But I can tell you this: the Admin personnel here have a job to do. What if they let us NGU junkies run the show for a couple of weeks? What if they let us do whatever we wanted to do here on NGU? CHAOS. I don't care WHAT kind of good intentions alot of you might have, CHAOS is what it would be. These Admin HAVE to have guidelines, there HAS to be boundaries that you aren't allowed to cross. And guess what? They look like @$$holes for it, too. HELL, my first post or two I was gonna be addressing the issue of why an ELITE member couldn't IMMEDIATELY jump into the Auction forums, whether they had 100 posts or not (which, I STILL think is BS, by the way. Hence the reason I'm not an elite member, right now...).

I'm just saying, it's alot deeper than "I want to sleep with whoever I want to sleep with!" or "I'd like to do all type of crazy sh*t in broad daylight and nobody can say anything about it!" Pshyeah...lol. The USA comes off as America the Free, but trust me. You'd better get your mind right...lol. The prison guards (government) are NOT PLAYING...

On another note: Sorry to sound insensitive but...look. I know me, I know us guys. Why in the world do you want to get with another man, anyway? What the HELL? You're CURIOUS? Curious...about what? Some things I don't need to "experiment with" to find out about it! What's wrong with women? GDamn, are you trying to catch the Ultimate Orgasm or something? Check out the latest Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition with Kate Upton in Antarctica on the cover. If that doesn't do it for you, become a Buddhist Monk, I can't help you...*smGDh* I don't know, I just don't understand...

Now shut up and sell me some GDamn trophies, GDamnit...lol. Just messing...

---------- Post added 03-05-2013 at 12:57 AM ---------- Previous post was 03-04-2013 at 11:53 PM ----------

I see that my reputation went down, after this past post. I'm excited about that. Just another example of how nobody REALLY wants to see different points of views. Nobody REALLY wants to expand their mind, or see things from another perspective. They just want you to agree with them. And if you don't, well...I'm gonna get you! You're the bad guy! Gay is good! Straight is hate! lol Yeah. I don't give an EFF. I'm gonna keep giving my views (not force feed them down people's throats) in an open-world, peacefully-debated environment. And I'm gonna tell you where you can go, if you don't like it. And people aren't gonna like it. They're gonna talk sh*t about me to other members and take away my reputation points...lol. And guess what. I'm gonna tell you where you can go, again. 'Cause I'm EFFin' stupid. I don't give an EFF.

This added part isn't directed to you, Just4hax. Just people who want to stay in the background and throw stones at me.

Thanks for playing...
03-05-2013, 09:01 AM #210
Originally posted by GDP View Post
Look, I'm not going to go into the details of this and that, to offer a rebuttal to your post. I think I've made myself clear on my stance. What I will elaborate on is this point (which, you and alot of other members probably won't understand): There are things that are in place by our elders, rules and guidelines that they've set forth for us, that we don't understand. I associate that lack of understanding with a modern society of "Know-It-Alls", myself. Anyway, their message...the purpose for their message...gets lost. But make no mistake about it, there was a reason for those "bad" rules. And if we TOTALLY DISPELL those rules into the wind, especially when we don't have a firm grasp on WHY those rules were there in the first place...CHAOS. Chaose is what will be spawned. I'll give you an example of CHAOS, right here in our neighborhood: NGU. Now I'm brand-new to NGU, and not an internet/twitter junkie at all. But I can tell you this: the Admin personnel here have a job to do. What if they let us NGU junkies run the show for a couple of weeks? What if they let us do whatever we wanted to do here on NGU? CHAOS. I don't care WHAT kind of good intentions alot of you might have, CHAOS is what it would be. These Admin HAVE to have guidelines, there HAS to be boundaries that you aren't allowed to cross. And guess what? They look like @$$holes for it, too. HELL, my first post or two I was gonna be addressing the issue of why an ELITE member couldn't IMMEDIATELY jump into the Auction forums, whether they had 100 posts or not (which, I STILL think is BS, by the way. Hence the reason I'm not an elite member, right now...).


That was a really long winded and overly confusing way of saying that the government can be a bit slow to change socially-related laws.

Originally posted by another user
I'm just saying, it's alot deeper than "I want to sleep with whoever I want to sleep with!" or "I'd like to do all type of crazy sh*t in broad daylight and nobody can say anything about it!" Pshyeah...lol. The USA comes off as America the Free, but trust me. You'd better get your mind right...lol. The prison guards (government) are NOT PLAYING...


No, it isn't deeper than that. It's a civil rights issue, and as the enlightened become the majority you'll see the law change. It happened with things like slavery, interracial marriage, women's rights, et cetera. This is just the next one in that list.

Originally posted by another user
On another note: Sorry to sound insensitive but...look. I know me, I know us guys. Why in the world do you want to get with another man, anyway? What the HELL? You're CURIOUS? Curious...about what? Some things I don't need to "experiment with" to find out about it! What's wrong with women? GDamn, are you trying to catch the Ultimate Orgasm or something? Check out the latest Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition with Kate Upton in Antarctica on the cover. If that doesn't do it for you, become a Buddhist Monk, I can't help you...*smGDh* I don't know, I just don't understand...


Replace the word 'man' with 'woman', 'women' with 'men', and 'Kate Upton' with 'Tom Cruise', or whoever is considered an attractive male celebrity. That's how stupid this post is.

Originally posted by another user
I see that my reputation went down, after this past post. I'm excited about that. Just another example of how nobody REALLY wants to see different points of views. Nobody REALLY wants to expand their mind, or see things from another perspective. They just want you to agree with them. And if you don't, well...I'm gonna get you! You're the bad guy! Gay is good! Straight is hate! lol Yeah. I don't give an EFF. I'm gonna keep giving my views (not force feed them down people's throats) in an open-world, peacefully-debated environment. And I'm gonna tell you where you can go, if you don't like it. And people aren't gonna like it. They're gonna talk sh*t about me to other members and take away my reputation points...lol. And guess what. I'm gonna tell you where you can go, again. 'Cause I'm EFFin' stupid. I don't give an EFF.

This added part isn't directed to you, Just4hax. Just people who want to stay in the background and throw stones at me.

Thanks for playing...


You're a homophobic, deluded, antagonist fool. Because beyond this post there's nothing more I can do, I've repped you negatively as well.
03-05-2013, 06:46 PM #211
GDP
"Child please..." - C. Johnson
@Clutch Hunterr:

Would ya look at that. The OP, started an opened-ended debate on a "touchy subject" thread has become... touchy. So touchy that he feels it's necessary to take away points from someone who *gasps!* is as opinionated as he! lol Maybe, it's because *gasps!* I don't have the same views as you, and now you're *yuck!* butthurt. I'm excited about that...

You know what's interesting about today's society, nobody wants to look someone in the face before they slit someone's throat. Nobody wants to stand up and talk, IN YOUR FACE, without shirking responsibility. Today's society loves the internet & twitter & facebook, because you don't have to CONFRONT anything HEAD-ON. You're always in the background, looking at people when they're not looking...lol. You don't like homosexuality? You're bad! You're a fool! Obviously, you're homophobic! It DEFINETELY can't be someone who sees the direction the world is going in and disagrees with it, you're just being an @$$hole if you do! Everybody should just be able to do anything, anytime, anywhere! lol. Oh, boy...

You know, if this was just on NGU's own little world, I would just laugh on the inside at you guys. But (unfortunately), it's a world concern. People doing whatever they want, and nobody better say sh*t about it. "It's right, because I say it's right! And if you debate it, I'll whine and scream until you make it right, as well!" Short-sightedness. Instant gratification. "I want my cake, NOW!" "I don't want to adjust myself to society, I want society to adjust to MY EMO-FILLED @$$!" lol. All of these things makes you RIGHT, and me WRONG?

Well, so be it. Say "GOODNIGHT" to the Badguy. You'll never meet another Badguy like me, let me tell you...lol.

P.S. I'm not taking any of your "Rep points" away, because you don't think like me. I must be some type of..."weirdo" or something, right? *smGDh*

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03-06-2013, 09:37 AM #212
Originally posted by GDP View Post
@Clutch Hunterr:

Would ya look at that. The OP, started an opened-ended debate on a "touchy subject" thread has become... touchy. So touchy that he feels it's necessary to take away points from someone who *gasps!* is as opinionated as he! lol Maybe, it's because *gasps!* I don't have the same views as you, and now you're *yuck!* butthurt. I'm excited about that...

You know what's interesting about today's society, nobody wants to look someone in the face before they slit someone's throat. Nobody wants to stand up and talk, IN YOUR FACE, without shirking responsibility. Today's society loves the internet & twitter & facebook, because you don't have to CONFRONT anything HEAD-ON. You're always in the background, looking at people when they're not looking...lol. You don't like homosexuality? You're bad! You're a fool! Obviously, you're homophobic! It DEFINETELY can't be someone who sees the direction the world is going in and disagrees with it, you're just being an @$$hole if you do! Everybody should just be able to do anything, anytime, anywhere! lol. Oh, boy...

You know, if this was just on NGU's own little world, I would just laugh on the inside at you guys. But (unfortunately), it's a world concern. People doing whatever they want, and nobody better say sh*t about it. "It's right, because I say it's right! And if you debate it, I'll whine and scream until you make it right, as well!" Short-sightedness. Instant gratification. "I want my cake, NOW!" "I don't want to adjust myself to society, I want society to adjust to MY EMO-FILLED @$$!" lol. All of these things makes you RIGHT, and me WRONG?

Well, so be it. Say "GOODNIGHT" to the Badguy. You'll never meet another Badguy like me, let me tell you...lol.

P.S. I'm not taking any of your "Rep points" away, because you don't think like me. I must be some type of..."weirdo" or something, right? *smGDh*


You've not made any sense. The world is changing? So the f*ck what? Society progresses, that's how these things work, and this is another step in that direction. You're using negatives aspects of society as a petty excuse to deny people the right to sexually be who they are because you're too downright ignorant to comprehend how anyone could have sexual interests that differ to your own.

And yes, by definition, you're a homophobe.
03-06-2013, 10:11 AM #213
GDP
"Child please..." - C. Johnson
Originally posted by Clutch
You've not made any sense. The world is changing? So the f*ck what? Society progresses, that's how these things work, and this is another step in that direction. You're using negatives aspects of society as a petty excuse to deny people the right to sexually be who they are because you're too downright ignorant to comprehend how anyone could have sexual interests that differ to your own.

And yes, by definition, you're a homophobe.


Progress, you say? Like what? Two men bumping ugly? Wow, what great strides we've made in society! Let's make some of the most unnatural of mess...natural! Progress! Pshyeah...lol. Just because society is moving in that direction, doesn't make it natural/right.

And another thing, I've said in my first post (if I'm not mistaken) that people can do WHATEVER THEY WANT TO in their personal lives, knock yourselves out. I'm saying, forcing yourself in a group or organization that says "we're not having that here", should be FORCED TO? THAT, I have a problem with.

I'm gonna prove something to you, and maybe some viewers of this thread:

What's your sexual preference?

The reason I'm asking is to prove something about homosexuality that alot of people (I believe you're one of them) aren't willing to accept. And that is: IT'S NOT CULTURALLY ACCEPTED! And if it is, as you made a post earlier stating, and you are truly homosexual yourself, you wouldn't mind stating that. Now, this isn't a controlled experiment at all, mind you. You could lie, I don't know how many people on this site know you personally, this doesn't directly affect your status in life because you're behind a computer screen, etc. It's more for YOU, than anyone else. However you respond to me or this post, it doesn't matter. YOU need to be honest with YOURSELF about this. Everyone shouldn't change for YOU (I'm talking in general, here). Everyone shouldn't try to accept ME, either. I have to CONFORM. PERIOD. Homosexuality (in my point of view) is a sexual preference, not a PERSON. It's a way of having sex. That's it. And marriage between a man and a woman isn't "last year". Our culture isn't weird, or old-fashioned, or ignorant, or stubborn. YOU NOT WILLING TO CONFORM TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS IS.

That's like walking into a company, looking for a job and saying, "Well, I know your rules say you have to wear a hair net, but uhhh...*smacks lips* my hair is lookin' kinda cute right now? That's not gonna work for me..."*rolls eyes* And you still fully-@$$-well are expecting to get hired...lol. Seriously? Good luck with that...

You know what, for you? I'm gonna give you a personal example of CONFORMING. During football season, I'd have friends come over my house on Sundays to watch the games all day (NFL Sunday Ticket! EFF Yeah!). There was a guy, who...was awkward-acting but was still accepted and nobody bullied him or anything. Just was a little weird and standoffish. Didn't really seem to know too much about the game of football, which is perfectly alright. Well one day, he came over my place with 2 packs of WINECOOLERS. Gasp Everybody else is drinking beer and eating buffalo wings, and you (somehow) figured it would be cool to bring...WINECOOLERS. For the guys, mind you. Pshyeah. You know what I told him? I stopped him at the door and told him to take those back to the store and get something more "socially acceptable for your environment", preferably Miller High Life...(it's the Champagne of Beers, what are you saying?!). You see that? He had to be let known what was what. What if I had said, "Oh. Hey. That's great...", guess what? Next week we'd all be there rooting for the cheerleaders instead of the teams...lol. Just playing, but seriously, he had to be let known. PERIOD. We're not drinking that. We're drinking BEER. Not...that. And we're watching the players. Not...each other when we're not looking...lol.

End of rant. Before I start ROFLMFAO...lol.
03-06-2013, 02:41 PM #214
Originally posted by GDP View Post
Progress, you say? Like what? Two men bumping ugly? Wow, what great strides we've made in society! Let's make some of the most unnatural of mess...natural! Progress! Pshyeah...lol. Just because society is moving in that direction, doesn't make it natural/right.

And another thing, I've said in my first post (if I'm not mistaken) that people can do WHATEVER THEY WANT TO in their personal lives, knock yourselves out. I'm saying, forcing yourself in a group or organization that says "we're not having that here", should be FORCED TO? THAT, I have a problem with.

I'm gonna prove something to you, and maybe some viewers of this thread:

What's your sexual preference?

The reason I'm asking is to prove something about homosexuality that alot of people (I believe you're one of them) aren't willing to accept. And that is: IT'S NOT CULTURALLY ACCEPTED! And if it is, as you made a post earlier stating, and you are truly homosexual yourself, you wouldn't mind stating that. Now, this isn't a controlled experiment at all, mind you. You could lie, I don't know how many people on this site know you personally, this doesn't directly affect your status in life because you're behind a computer screen, etc. It's more for YOU, than anyone else. However you respond to me or this post, it doesn't matter. YOU need to be honest with YOURSELF about this. Everyone shouldn't change for YOU (I'm talking in general, here). Everyone shouldn't try to accept ME, either. I have to CONFORM. PERIOD. Homosexuality (in my point of view) is a sexual preference, not a PERSON. It's a way of having sex. That's it. And marriage between a man and a woman isn't "last year". Our culture isn't weird, or old-fashioned, or ignorant, or stubborn. YOU NOT WILLING TO CONFORM TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS IS.

That's like walking into a company, looking for a job and saying, "Well, I know your rules say you have to wear a hair net, but uhhh...*smacks lips* my hair is lookin' kinda cute right now? That's not gonna work for me..."*rolls eyes* And you still fully-@$$-well are expecting to get hired...lol. Seriously? Good luck with that...

You know what, for you? I'm gonna give you a personal example of CONFORMING. During football season, I'd have friends come over my house on Sundays to watch the games all day (NFL Sunday Ticket! EFF Yeah!). There was a guy, who...was awkward-acting but was still accepted and nobody bullied him or anything. Just was a little weird and standoffish. Didn't really seem to know too much about the game of football, which is perfectly alright. Well one day, he came over my place with 2 packs of WINECOOLERS. Gasp Everybody else is drinking beer and eating buffalo wings, and you (somehow) figured it would be cool to bring...WINECOOLERS. For the guys, mind you. Pshyeah. You know what I told him? I stopped him at the door and told him to take those back to the store and get something more "socially acceptable for your environment", preferably Miller High Life...(it's the Champagne of Beers, what are you saying?!). You see that? He had to be let known what was what. What if I had said, "Oh. Hey. That's great...", guess what? Next week we'd all be there rooting for the cheerleaders instead of the teams...lol. Just playing, but seriously, he had to be let known. PERIOD. We're not drinking that. We're drinking BEER. Not...that. And we're watching the players. Not...each other when we're not looking...lol.

End of rant. Before I start ROFLMFAO...lol.


You have quite the habit of going off on a tangent...

Anyway, you asked me if I'm homosexual. No, I'm heterosexual, but I fully endorse other people doing what they want, and god forbid I see another male nude I'm not going to start screaming in a vain attempt to prove how hetero I am. But then again, I don't see sex as such a special thing compared to others, so there you go.

You seem to think homosexuality isn't 'natural' - why is that? It's a trait exhibited in other species just as prominently as with our own, and even if you don't accept that, naturality is irrelevant anyway. The computers we're using are hardly natural.

Conform? You're refusing to accept those of other sexual persuasions for who they are merely so that you aren't conforming to the majority's point of view? Why should the popularity or the lack thereof make or break an opinion for you, especially one that affects so many millions of people?

I could go on, but your post just about represents the irrational fears of the homophobic crowd and I think it largely speaks for itself.
03-06-2013, 02:47 PM #215
GDP
"Child please..." - C. Johnson
Originally posted by Clutch
You have quite the habit of going off on a tangent...

Anyway, you asked me if I'm homosexual. No, I'm heterosexual, but I fully endorse other people doing what they want, and god forbid I see another male nude I'm not going to start screaming in a vain attempt to prove how hetero I am. But then again, I don't see sex as such a special thing compared to others, so there you go.

You seem to think homosexuality isn't 'natural' - why is that? It's a trait exhibited in other species just as prominently as with our own, and even if you don't accept that, naturality is irrelevant anyway. The computers we're using are hardly natural.

Conform? You're refusing to accept those of other sexual persuasions for who they are merely so that you aren't conforming to the majority's point of view? Why should the popularity or the lack thereof make or break an opinion for you, especially one that affects so many millions of people?

I could go on, but your post just about represents the irrational fears of the homophobic crowd and I think it largely speaks for itself.


How about this: let's agree to disagree, shall we? A common truce that signifies us debating this topic means absolutely nothing in the big picture. I'm good with that...

Now, can somebody get me an EFFin' beer? The Blackhawks are playing tonight... :y:
03-06-2013, 04:29 PM #216
.James
Who’s Jim Erased?
The subject isn't something you can agree or disagree on, homosexuality is natural. Simple as that.
03-06-2013, 09:30 PM #217
GDP
"Child please..." - C. Johnson
Originally posted by .James View Post
The subject isn't something you can agree or disagree on, homosexuality is natural. Simple as that.


"Natural", you say. For animals, and other lower-life formed creatures, right? Yeah, that would be just a "whatever" thing for them, I hear you on that. We're "humans", though. We're supposed to be a higher life form than that, not a "just do whatever!" group of beings.

I've got another experiment for you, Clucth Hunterr, and whoever else out there, also. Why don't you go somewhere and grab your ankles, in an area where...everyone's grabbing ankles and...tell me how natural you feel, afterwards. Go ahead, tell the class about what a natural, earthly sensation came over you when you're @$$hole collapsed. Better yet, if you're not able to find that "special someone", you;'re in luck! I know just the person that can put you on that "Highway to Heaven". He's a friend of mine. As a matter of fact, he looks just like Abobo from Double Dragon, remember him? Yeah, THAT guy.

Why am I issuing this challenge, you ask? Well, it's all natural, right? I mean, The lines are all blurred, and we're all just one big orgy pot, right? Then there's no need to classify yourself as "homosexual" or "heterosexual". Just get naked and let nature run its course! lol

Yeah. You won't. You want to know WHY you won't? Because it's so easy to be "right", to say the "right" things, from a distance. But you don't want to get "in it", directly. You want to say what you'd like from a distance. But when it's time to "show up to the party", when its time to "talk with your chest", you're nowhere to be found. People like that find their relevance...here. In online forums. Where you can stand up for justice...behind your laptop. But I see you. You're RIGHT THERE. Looking at me when I'm not looking...*smGDh*

Which, I don't know if that's a homosexual trait or not, but...it's pretty GDamn gay, if you ask me...lol.

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