(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings.

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:

tl;drkay:

Wat did I just read? But anyway, she's not even your girlfriend, and she most definitely wasn't then. It's not that big of a deal and if you really did love her that shouldn't matter. It seems that all you do it talk to her, do you two even see each other?

Read pls :fa:

Well, she wasn't your girlfriend was she? If not then it's not really anything you could have control over.

We hardly ever see each other, she's going to a different high school this year, and she lives like 30min away. She's always busy being a cheerleader and such, and since her mom doesn't know me, we can't see each other often.

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I know but she still considers me her boyfriend, and what if she was my girlfriend would she still have done it? Makes me think what else is she gonna do? I already told her all this shit about marrying her and she says the same to me. Makes me ponder.

If you have a skype add me, TheUnboundSoul, Also if i were you, I'd give her another chance, don't get so angry that it happened, things like these happen now a days(Just wish that they didn't...) If she says something that upsets you don't get mad.

You are not physically going out with her so the both of you can do whatever you like, but if you "really" love her and don't wanna lose her tell her your not happy if she "really" likes you then she will understand, if she doesn't then shes not worth the hassle just fuck her off :p

Edit: didn't see the part that she's not your girlfriend.

In that case you have no control over it and if you really liked her then you should have asked her out earlier. It's not cheating if you don't have a relationship in the first place.

Well it sounded like you weren't officially together at the time, and have never been. You never know what else she would do, she said it was a dare and acted like it was a good excuse. You really only have to options: try to forgive her and move forward, or move on and find someone else, you're only 15 and trust me, I've been there. You don't want to spend all your time on one girl, because it most likely won't last (there is always a chance though). But you should probably try to find some other girls and get yourself out there. You're in high school, have fun. And, if it happens that way, she might just come back to you later...