(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings.

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:

I have asked her out many times, she's just not ready for a boyfriend right now, but she said when she is I'll be her first choice. We act like a couple calling each other babe and baby, and even dear or darling haha. We even get jealous if one another talks to another guy or a girl.



If you new the whole story and then you wouldn't be saying that. That's something you just don't do. Even if it was some lame ass dare. People don't do that. If she was my girlfriend would she still have done it? That's why I'm angry not because she touched his pants or whatever, but because of that and if she might do it again or even worse. Things like this make guys consider turning gay.

You both get jealous if either of you talk to other people yet she touches other guy's dicks? I don't even..

To be honest, it not fair to be mad at her for something she did in the past. She didn't know you before this, correct? If so, then there's it's not fair for you to be mad at her. It's perfectly fine for you to be upset and to be mad about it happening, but not mad at her. What happened in the past can't be changed :/ As long as she didn't/doesn't do anything with anyone else while you guys are "dating" then there's no need to be mad. You're gonna get some on her Birthday man! Be happy

Best of Luck

-Josh

I meant, she'll get jealous because I'll make her jealous I'll say a girl from across the street is coming over or whatever, and she'll sometimes make me angry or jealous, but I know right.Fucking women. Make no sense at fucking sense whatsoever.

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We knew each other, this happened when I after I told her I loved her and she loved me, this happened in June at the end of the school year, we knew each other. I have every fucking right to be angry, buy you're correct the past can't be changed. Still pissed as fuck. Or I was about 5-6hours ago, now I'm just thinking about what I should do next. Because with women no matter if they hurt the guy or not, no matter if the guy is the victim, they always end up being the victim and the guy has to say sorry to them it almost always happens some way or some how it happens and if it doesn't then WHOOP DE FUCKING DOO

Yea from what it sounds like you should move on... The whole scenario just isn't right for either of you. But she shouldn't get jealous if you hang out with another girl if you love her and she shouldn't be messing with other guys if that's how she would feel.

How much easier life would be if women actually made sense

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I see. Well in this case you have every right to be angry/upset. But on the plus side, she told you about it. She didn't try to hide the fact that she did something with someone else. This means you can trust her Girls will do stupid stuff when their guy isn't around, but it's never serious and they do have a bit of sense

I would, and probably will. The problem is I'm a sucker for feelings once I become really close to someone and get really attached emotionally I fear I'll lose them and I don't know how to deal with that. No matter what I do, I've become to attached to let her go after every fight, arguement or complication we get into I always come running back to her or she'll come back to me (but its mostly me coming back to her) no matter how many times this girl hurts me I just can't get the hell away from her. i hate being like this. Its my only weakness.

I'm the same way man. I had an on and off relationship with this one girl for about two and a half years. Finally got into a massive fight with her over something really stupid and I haven't talked to her since. Just remind yourself that you don't need her and that being with her isn't good

I know what it's like bro. Something really similar to this happened to me last year and it killed me for the longest time. But really the only thing that can solve it (at least in my case) was time and thought. If you need me I'm here to talk to.