(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick , I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings.

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:

Child pornography? Are you stupid?

MORE WISE WORDS FROM USERS. I'm not angry that she touched his pants over a dare (she didn't touch his dick just his pants where it was) but like Clutch said, what else would she do for a dare? Would she suck another dudes dick for a dare? What if she does something like this again only worse? How can I trust that she won't do this if I don't have my eye on her? To put it bluntly I have every right to be upset but then again I don't. We aren't in a relationship that's true and she can do whatever she wants you're right. Still makes me mad regardless, I mean she says she loves me and all this other bullshit. Girls make me sick in general no matter what they always either lie, cheat, or hide things from a guy. Then they go about saying all guys cheat and this and that. I'd never do something like that to her. She's a total bitch AND she owes me a laptop.

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Not in the mood for jokes. It was a dare. Doesn't mean she wants his dick. Or maybe it does? :think:

You're jealous, it happens, but there is no need to be that angry at all, I mean, considering it was just a bet and she is still a virgin, it's not like she lost her virginity that night and the fact that you've threatened her to hurt her if she was telling you this in person made her lose all her trust for you and will most likely be scared to tell you any other secrets, plus you said you was angry and typed in caps, this most likely led her to lie about what really happened next if it happened, calm down and DON'T think about getting laid with someone else if she really lost her virginity, because that's why you're angry. Relax, apologize, don't do anything stupid.

Right.

You certainly seem angry over it, since as you posted it the moment she told you that she did it with some kid called Justin or whatever YOU BROKE YOUR LAPTOP, >>YOU<<.

Now, you are just throwing out WILD conjecture with absolutely no basis, she did a dare, probably with a bit of drink in her too, that doesn't mean the moment you take your eye off her that she will jump on another penis and ride it until the cows come home.

Protip #1: YOU ARE TOO YOUNG. No girl at 14 wants to be "in love", it's FAR too soon. We've all been there yeah yeah whatever, but at the end of the day it is too soon, it's not just women, guys do it too. Falling in love at your age whilst may be probable it's very unlikely. But plainly, it's too soon, you are barely even teenagers, not even fully developed yet, you should be outside playing with sticks and hula hoops not punching out laptops because some totally unrelated girl touched some guy's dick whom you don't even know it seems.

Seriously, I am trying to be nice here and turning my absolute incredulity into a tough-love type thing, it, won't, happen. I hate to tell you, but NO-ONE is "In love" after talking for a few months, it just doesn't happen, love is a much more complicated emotion than that, would you be happy spending years helping her out of bed? Brushing her teeth? Watching her get fat? If not, you don't "love" her. I've been there, I know what love feels like and the "love" I felt at 19 is orders of magnitude different to the "love" I felt at 13.

Penultimately, I think you should take a long, hard look at yourself because, to me, you seem to be the very jealous and controlling type and if this isn't coming out in you now, I think it will do very, very soon. If you can turn from "AHMAHGADZ I LUVZ HER SO SO MUCH!" to "She's a TOTAL bitch, she comes out with all this bullshit" etc in (essentially) milliseconds, you aren't supposed to be with her (and/or) you just are NOT mature enough for a proper relationship yet.

Finally, she doesn't OWE YOU anything, get over yourself. YOU broke your laptop by being unable to control your ridiculous teenage angst rage over absolutely naff all and it disgusts me to hear that you are blaming her when it is entirely your fault. I suggest you go to bed, relax and sleep on it and you will realise just you silly you sound in the morning. I would also suggest apologizing for being a world-class jealous dick.

To quote John Steinbeck:

"It is a common experience that a problem difficult at night is resolved in the morning after the committee of sleep has worked on it".

Cheers!

P.S. What happened to your other recent squeeze? The girl you loved so much that hated herself beyond imagination and wouldn't let anyone in?

Its the same girl and I love you. Thank you, you're right thanks holy fuck are you right. I hate how right you are...

Yea I can see the next thread......

It's gonna start like" so this girl i met on FB who is my GF put a cock in her moutj as a dare......."

You say you are mature yet you act like a child "you can't talk to a guy or girl without eachother gettin jealous?" strong maturity shown there

If I recall I said I do/did it on purpose to sort of play around with her and see how she reacts its a game we do sort of, I didn't mean to word it like that. All I need is advice. Not you being a dick about it. So how else am I acting like a child? Please explain.

Hey Killua.

I'm right because I've been in the situation before, been there, done that.

If you've received your answer and want this closed, just PM me. I am really glad I could help you, it's what I do.

Cheers!