Post: Need Some Advice...
07-24-2012, 03:10 AM #1
Killua-
Let The Madness Reign
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys Winky Winky

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings. Drack

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:
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MelissaMollin
07-24-2012, 04:07 AM #20
BAMF
Social Engineer
Originally posted by Killua
Op.


Make it clear that what she did was completely unacceptable. Make sure that its not the fact that she did it. Its the fact that she didnt think about how you would feel about it. If you ask me, she's no good. Dont trust a hoe, never trust a hoe. Wont trust a hoe.

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Killua-
07-24-2012, 04:08 AM #21
Killua-
Let The Madness Reign
Originally posted by Illodgeical View Post
How much easier life would be if women actually made sense :P

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I see. Well in this case you have every right to be angry/upset. But on the plus side, she told you about it. She didn't try to hide the fact that she did something with someone else. This means you can trust her Smile Girls will do stupid stuff when their guy isn't around, but it's never serious and they do have a bit of sense Winky Winky


Agree to disagree. Women are always trouble hardly anything good comes from them. Like I said shit like this makes a dude consider turning gay. Though I'm not into guys and wouldn't turn gay for anything. I been nothing but good to this chick. Call her beautiful, make her feel wanted, special, told her she's the only girl for me and she constantly plays with my feelings for example one time we got into an arguement and she said she liked someone else. ANother time she said she just wanted to be friends. I'm a really negative guy (not in that way) but I see mostly the bad side of things, things that could go wrong, bad things that will happen etc. Its how I am. I already know we probably wont last and all that bullshit. Hell, I even made her promise me that no matter what happens we will always remain the best of friends. Lesson learned. Can barely trust women. Never give someone the key to your heart. Never make promises you can't keep. Make sure women say as they'll do. My friend, actions speak louder then words.

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Illodgeical
07-24-2012, 04:13 AM #22
TheRock_
Climbing up the ladder
break up with that little slut ffs she did it over a dare so if i dare her to suck my cock will she do it?? this was just over a dare she is an immature little slut and i suggest u break up with her ur only 15 u dont know real love Winky Winky
07-24-2012, 04:25 AM #23
Killua-
Let The Madness Reign
Originally posted by ClutchlikeLBJ View Post
ur only 15 u dont know real love Winky Winky


What did I say about people coming here saying shit like that? GTFO. But you have a point Gaspkay:

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Originally posted by El
Yea from what it sounds like you should move on... The whole scenario just isn't right for either of you. But she shouldn't get jealous if you hang out with another girl if you love her and she shouldn't be messing with other guys if that's how she would feel.


My point exactly, I mean lets say we were a couple and she did this. Its almost like cheating, if you cheat on someone that means the feelings that you say you had aren't really there. So I'll see what happens, and since she's broke my heart to many times it doesn't really affect me as much now. All I have to say is, she owes me a fucking laptop and the bitch better have it.

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Originally posted by Illodgeical View Post
I'm the same way man. I had an on and off relationship with this one girl for about two and a half years. Finally got into a massive fight with her over something really stupid and I haven't talked to her since. Just remind yourself that you don't need her and that being with her isn't good Smile


I do that all the time but it doesn't work Gaspkay: and sorry about that girl :(

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Originally posted by AMF View Post
Make it clear that what she did was completely unacceptable. Make sure that its not the fact that she did it. Its the fact that she didnt think about how you would feel about it. If you ask me, she's no good. Dont trust a hoe, never trust a hoe. Wont trust a hoe.


Wise words. Enzo Thank you.

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Originally posted by El
I know what it's like bro. Something really similar to this happened to me last year and it killed me for the longest time. But really the only thing that can solve it (at least in my case) was time and thought. If you need me I'm here to talk to.


Alright. But I don't know, I'll just see how everything plays out. If she texts me tomorrow or calls me I'll see.
07-24-2012, 04:25 AM #24
I wish you the best of luck my friend.

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Killua-
07-24-2012, 04:27 AM #25
TheRock_
Climbing up the ladder
Originally posted by Killua
What did I say about people coming here saying shit like that? GTFO. But you have a point Gaspkay:

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My point exactly, I mean lets say we were a couple and she did this. Its almost like cheating, if you cheat on someone that means the feelings that you say you had aren't really there. So I'll see what happens, and since she's broke my heart to many times it doesn't really affect me as much now. All I have to say is, she owes me a fucking laptop and the bitch better have it.

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I do that all the time but it doesn't work Gaspkay: and sorry about that girl :(

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Wise words. Enzo Thank you.

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Alright. But I don't know, I'll just see how everything plays out. If she texts me tomorrow or calls me I'll see.



sorry i only read the summary lol

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Killua-
07-24-2012, 04:28 AM #26
Killua-
Let The Madness Reign
Originally posted by ClutchlikeLBJ View Post
sorry i only read the summary lol


Made my night. :lol:

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TheRock_
07-24-2012, 04:33 AM #27
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07-24-2012, 04:39 AM #28
Paul
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My advice to you:

Get over it. Your "non-girlfriend-girlfriend" touched some other bloke's dick when you barely knew her, that is of no interest to you and if you asked her before she would have likely told you.

Seriously, in my opinion you have no right to be angry at all, you don't own her, she can do what she wants and unless you were in a TOTALLY EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP where you had DECLARED THIS to one another prior to this happening, you have no right to be angry.

Lastly, if you've lost 90% of your trust in her, leave, trust never comes back, even though it's a bit of a silly reason to "lose trust" in someone.

Seriously, just get over it, what she did is nothing to do with you, she TOUCHED another penis ONCE in her life for a DARE, you are overreacting so much it's unbelievable, you're acting like you were in a totally exclusive relationship and she boned your best friend whilst stabbing your pet cat as you watched.

I hope that helps man, seriously, just get over it.

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