Post: Need Some Advice...
07-24-2012, 03:10 AM #1
Killua-
Let The Madness Reign
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys Winky Winky

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings. Drack

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:
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MelissaMollin
07-24-2012, 09:55 PM #38
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
Originally posted by Killua
Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys Winky Winky

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings. Drack

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:


She touched a guys trousers for a dare. Your not even her boyfriend. You completely overacted, when it wasn't even your place to overact. You should go out to her on her birthday, go for food and then bring her cinema to make it up to her. Otherwise, your fucking up completely. She can do whatever she wants as long as your not going out with her. Mate, you really fucked up, not her. Advise, don't hate.
07-25-2012, 05:11 AM #39
TheBigRod
uh-may-zuh-zing
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07-25-2012, 05:35 AM #40
Hmm, In my opinion, she was playing when this happened, she told you it was a dare in the classroom, so it was just a silly joke that they did at that moment, does not mean she does not love you because of what happened ... She's only 14 years old, these games in the classroom are normal especially if her friends might have encouraged this .. If you really love her, if you really think she is the right girl for you, forget what happened and give her a second chance, you two are still young and what you said that she tries everything possible to keep in touch with you, even going against his mother .. Do not forget that true love rarely happens in our lives, and you two can still be very happy ... So if you really miss her and truly love her, give her a chance.
07-25-2012, 01:50 PM #41
Ivysaur
Game Completionist
Originally posted by Mr.
She touched a guys trousers for a dare. Your not even her boyfriend. You completely overacted, when it wasn't even your place to overact. You should go out to her on her birthday, go for food and then bring her cinema to make it up to her. Otherwise, your fucking up completely. She can do whatever she wants as long as your not going out with her. Mate, you really fucked up, not her. Advise, don't hate.


He says she is his girlfriend though, so doesn't that make him her boyfriend?

Originally posted by Killua
I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend.
07-25-2012, 05:08 PM #42
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
Originally posted by Iussus View Post
He says she is his girlfriend though, so doesn't that make him her boyfriend?


Well he contradicts himself then, because here he is saying she isn't his girlfriend.

Originally posted by Killua
She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend.
07-25-2012, 05:16 PM #43
Selky
< ^ > < ^ >
Originally posted by Killua
Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys Winky Winky

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings. Drack

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:


Long story LOL..anyway if that happened before you started dating her you should try and forget that..if not then dump her
07-25-2012, 05:17 PM #44
Selky
< ^ > < ^ >
Originally posted by Killua
Hello NGU members, now I know this isn't a "Come here and talk to you about my girl problems forum" but just hear me out.

Before that though, I know there may be a few trolls that might come to this thread, and I say to the "trolls" don't come here being a dick, its not cool, not funny, and it doesn't make you a more likeable member of NGU. Now to my problem.

I've been talking to a girl I met via a Facebook friend a few months ago maybe like February or March? Anyway, I started talking to her everyday and now to this day she is my girlfriend. We talk pretty much everyday and the funny thing is... haha I sorta, kinda fell in love with her. I'm only 15 and she's 14. Before you say anything about "Oh you're to young to be in love" or "You have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other girls." Well to that I say fuck you. That's right. Fuck you. Just because I'm 15 doesn't mean anything. You're never to young or to old to be in love. Also I have a very mature mind for a 15 year old. I'm only in 10th grade and I'm getting plans for my future ready. She is very mature also. She's beautiful, a cheerleader, a nice body, and everything. Enough about that.

So, she says she loves me I love her but being I know how all scenarios turn out... in life there are no happy endings, nobody gets what they want, and things never/don't always turn out as they are planned. Am I right? Being so young I know we will eventually split or whatever and meet other people. She's not even my girlfriend really, we are best friends but at the moment she isn't ready for a boyfriend. I'm okay with this... for now. Although I still consider her my girlfriend and she tells people I'm her boyfriend. We know almost everything about each other, and when we text we sometimes have erm... sex chats? Lol. I'm not getting into that with you guys Winky Winky

But recently today I was texting her (side note: she got her phone taken away a few weeks back because she got a small tattoo that her mom didn't approve of, so she uses her friends phone JUST to text me I find that cute/adorable she volunteers at a day care so almost everyday or two she'll use her friends phone there to text me, or when she gets home she'll use her moms, her mom doesn't approve of boyfriends btw and her mom doesn't like her talking to boys haha).

We were talking, I asked her to tell me more about herself (even though I know almost everything about her) I wanted to her it again. So she tells me this. "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". (my middle name, she likes it better than my first) She is a good girl I would say, never had sex chats, never really you know... masturbated haha or any of that. But somehow I turned her into a girl that will occasionally start sex chats with me and she even tells me that everytime she masturbates she fantasizes about my cock. ALL THE TIME. Anyway, while she was working I asked her to go into the bathroom, look into the mirror, and I asked her what she saw, she said she saw a beautiful girl, with a nice body, and etc. So I told her go into the stall, pull down your pants, and slide your fingers into your well you know the rest. So after she did that (back to where I left off) and after she said "I like big dick Winky Winky, I can't wait for my birthday, and I love this kid named Tavares". I asked her how does she like big dick if she's never felt one inside of her or ever touched one (the only dick she ever saw was mine sent her pics etc.). She replied something that made me very upset, frustrated, angry, and confused. She replied this "I have touched one before! Just not yours. It was a dare so don't judge" So I was yelling at her in text using caps and etc. Like tell me when, who it was, where it was and what happened after. She told me it was a guy named Justin, in 8th grade, the end of the year, and nothing happened after (I'm going to 10th grade this year and she's going to 9th). I asked her was this before or after you started talking to me? She says I was still talking to you. I was on Facebook while texting her when this happened and I sorta broke my laptop screen I was so angry I punched it haha. Good thing I have two :y: If you want pics to bad I threw it out already and the garbage people came by being that this happened earlier today. So after all of that I told her she owed me a new laptop and took a pic of what happened and sent it to her, I said I lost 90% of my trust in her and that this is the most angry she's ever made me. I literally felt like if I was in person with her I would've knocked her the fuck out and that says a lot considering I've never laid my hands on a female.

So in conclusion, do I have the right to be angry? I mean it was a dare, and she only touched his pants not his cock physically but its kinda the same thing. I mean, how can I trust she won't do something like this again? She might even go farther then this time. How can I trust anything she says? What other things hasn't she told me? Has she told me any lies etc? I'd go into more detail about us, but that's a shitload to read and this is already enough.

I could use some serious advice right now guys and girls of NGU. As of right now, I have nothing to say to her, and I'm deciding whether or not to speak to her again/if I should break it off with her. Keep in mind I love this girl with all of my heart, but I knew something like this (not like this but you get the picture) would happen. Thanks in advanced, and oh yea... Fuck feelings. Drack

tl;dr? Here's a fucking summary, girlfriend touched a guys dick, in a classroom, end of school year not his actual cock but his pants it was because of a dare, she's 14 I'm 15, I love her a lot she loves me, been talking to each other since February, talk to her everyday, wondering if I have the right to be angry cause I'm really fucking pissed. This happend a few hours ago.

Side note: She says she'll never break my heart and she always does lol yet I keep running back to her. I'm a sucker for feelings and emotion. :fa:

Long story LOL..anyway if that happened before you started dating her you should try and forget that..if not then dump her
07-25-2012, 05:31 PM #45
Media907
League Champion
wow so what if she touch a guys dick as a dare
i know girls who would give you a handjob in lessons
07-25-2012, 05:46 PM #46
Pricey91
Professor of trollology
Dude she isn't your girlfriend. If there is a doubt as to weather she is or isn't, then she isn't. Therefore if she isn't your girlfriend she can touch any dick she wants too. Plenty more fish in the sea, go find another girl if it bothers you that much.

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