Post: Want another chance with my ex..
08-17-2014, 03:39 PM #1
Stealth_Tek
At least I can fight
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So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..
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08-17-2014, 04:19 PM #2
Swaqq
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Call her and say "FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY" !

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08-17-2014, 05:07 PM #3
Stealth_Tek
At least I can fight
Originally posted by NGU View Post
Call her and say "FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY" !


Haha, well I did fuck her right in the pussy XD fucked her good alright. Good luck to her new BF if she does end up dating him, lmao.
08-17-2014, 05:46 PM #4
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
Originally posted by Tek View Post
I'll try to make this is as short as possible.

So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..


First of all if you were a **** you don't deserve her. If she wants you back you need to not cut all contact with her cause then she's going to find someone else and move on not miss you.. oh and don't be a **** again.
08-17-2014, 06:08 PM #5
Stealth_Tek
At least I can fight
Originally posted by EYE
Just learn from lessons and move on mate. Hard but do it!


Yeah true that man it's really difficult but I've learned my lesson. I will apply it when I find someone else, or even if when I get back with her.

Originally posted by JP View Post
First of all if you were a **** you don't deserve her. If she wants you back you need to not cut all contact with her cause then she's going to find someone else and move on not miss you.. oh and don't be a **** again.


I wasn't a total douchebag to her. The reason I wasn't giving her the attention and the reason I was mean to her at times was because of an event that happened in her past which I couldn't get over. It's pathetic of me to dwell on it, eventually I just became an ass. I never hit her but I yelled at her and stuff. So no, I wasn't a complete monster to her. She liked me for the sweet loving me. That part of me just faded off but I'm slowly gaining my old self back. This animal right now isn't me at all. She even said I'm "okay" as a person, that I'm not bad at all. It was the way I changed and the way I handled things.

To some people, I may not deserve her. But to me, I feel like I deserve at least another chance. And that's when I change my attitude and my behavior.
08-17-2014, 08:50 PM #6
get her back before its too late

... if its too late, ... at least you ''hit'' it first Winky Winky
08-18-2014, 03:52 AM #7
Stealth_Tek
At least I can fight
Originally posted by Smexeh View Post
get her back before its too late

... if its too late, ... at least you ''hit'' it first Winky Winky


Lmfao I sure did bruh I sure did Winky Winky even got a vid of me jamming my meat down her throat and nutting all over her face XD I can send it to that other guy if I wanted to be a complete ass but nah ain't gonna stoop that low!

Originally posted by EYE
That's a good but tough choice. Need a chat it help I'm here if you need Needa


Yeah it is but I'm taking the chance! And thanks man appreciate it!
08-18-2014, 03:57 AM #8
EternalHabit
Former Staff
Originally posted by Tek View Post
I'll try to make this is as short as possible.

So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..


your doing exactly what u need to do. you need to act like you agree with the breakup, and work on your self. no contact at all for 30 days. make sure you change everything about you that she didnt like, otherwise it'll end the same way it did. u need to start fresh with her, with the new you. And don't try and "get back to the old relationship" because that one didnt work anyway. just start a new relationship with new habits. ive been in your position twice before with 2 different girls, this worked for me every single time. also ive done alot of reading on breakups, with what works and what doesnt, also how you approach her after the 30 days is up. if u need more help private msg me.
08-18-2014, 04:04 AM #9
Stealth_Tek
At least I can fight
Originally posted by xTurntUpLobbies View Post
your doing exactly what u need to do. work on your self. no contact at all for 30 days. make sure you change everything about you that she didnt like, otherwise it'll end the same way it did. u need to start fresh with her, with the new you. And don't try and "get back to the old relationship" because that one didnt work anyway. just start a new relationship with new habits


Yeah sounds good bro. But what about that other guy? Haha idk if he'll get in the way but whatever happens, I hope my ex is happy with whoever she ends up with. I still care about her, and always will. She'll always have a special place in my heart no matter what happens <3
08-18-2014, 04:10 AM #10
EternalHabit
Former Staff
Originally posted by Tek View Post
Yeah sounds good bro. But what about that other guy? Haha idk if he'll get in the way but whatever happens, I hope my ex is happy with whoever she ends up with. I still care about her, and always will. She'll always have a special place in my heart no matter what happens <3

if your actually serious about getting her back tho, you could easily do it. lol that guy is just a rebound guy, dont be nervous about him

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