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So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..

You're judging me for one simple brag? If I used her for sex and brag then that's wrong. But no, I love her and still do. I'd never disrespect a women like that.



Thanks bro, in no way was I saying it disrespectfully. Yeah I'm doing that, hoping she misses me. This rebound of hers should soon mess up but who knows!

yooo lmao I was thinking about making a thread like this. We're both going through the same problem. I haven't gave up on my lady, been on her ass blowing her shit up since we broke up. If you really love and care for her as you say you do, you'd chase after her and risk your time and shit. If she says she still loves you and all that... She can't forget about you and not wanna get back together.

Sorry to hear bro but things will get better. And that's what you think will work, that's even what I thought would work. But I found out that I was only pushing her away. I drove all the way over to her state (we're Long Distance atm) and she didn't wanna see me and she cried and got mad. She needed space and so I'm giving her space. I begged too much and driving there was a bad idea. It did show how much I love her, and I'm glad I proved a point to show my love though.

She has to love me, but right now she's in denial.

Did you drive over there to see her and talk or did you bring something with you that she liked, like a favorite something?
Probably would of made her a bit happy. You really should of asked before driving over there. You wasted your gas and kind of your time.

Didn't bring anything, only brought myself. Idk, I'm giving her her space. Begging her and being all sweet or whatever is only pushing her away. I'm confident and I'm prepared for whatever happens. I'll try and go on a few dates, though, I'm really uncomfortable because I don't rebound. I have strong feelings for her still.

"His entitled to say that"

I don't brag about "having sex" some things are private to people and he has disregarded her privacy all together by saying "that's right I fucked her I fucked her good" names or not it is called disrespect fgt

Yeah disregarded her privacy lool here's her Facebook and Instagram while you're at it, click THIS.

Joking. I wasn't bragging, I was replying to that other guy's comment. It was a very common thing for guys to say and you're making it a big deal XD

move on

your an idiot good luck trying to get a girl in the future...