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So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..

Lol whatever you say.



easier said than done bruh

This sucks.. One moment I'm perfectly fine and the next I'm all depressed. I still miss her and want her back.. I know everyone says to move on but I love this girl too much to move on. I keep picturing how happy she is without me :/

take her to starbucks and put it in her ass

I actually do need to take her out, but I need to give her some time to sort her shit out before I even ask. She never did let me "put it in her ass" though.. lmao

Why did you break up with her?
Or she did.

She broke up with me because I wasn't paying much attention to her, and I was a bit rude to her. It was unacceptable, but I feel like I deserve another chance. I had my personal reasons for why I didn't treat her how I used to, but atm I'm trying to go back to my roots..

Sounds like not telling the full story and no reason why you should not have done to start with.
Even with personal issues you should have spoken to her about them.
To me sounds like you was not ready for a relationship that could be an age thing or mental.

Need to be open with people when it comes to a serious relationship.

I was open, we talked a lot about problems and whatnot. We tried to fix them but I somehow got detached to her while still having feelings for her, if that makes sense.

Now she's gone in the wind.. I might never look back, or maybe I'll contact her in a month or two. I don't know, but I doubt she'll contact me as she's mad and has someone else to comfort her..

Sorry lad, but why should you have to "change" to make the girl love you back ? That ain't right. Either she accepts the way you are or she doesn't and she didn't.

"there are plenty other fish in the sea" She is not the only girl alive that you will fall in love with. Find someone thats like you. you know, you be rude, they be rude back and shit. there's someone out there for everybody.