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So there's this girl I really deeply love and care for. Dated her for over a year but for months I've been really rude to her and she just got fed up with it. I didn't change, she gave me chances but I just didn't. It wasn't until we broke up that I finally realized, I NEED to change.

She wants to remain friends, but is talking to some other guy that I KNOW she barely met after our break up. She didn't tell me about him, I just found out on my own. She seems to be on the rebound, though they're not dating.
The thing that bothers me is that she said "we can still be friends and one day maybe we'll get back together. You still have a chance".

So I'm stuck here deciding if she's even worth fighting or worth waiting for. I've cut all contact with her, to work on myself and focus on myself. Hope that she misses me during this time period. If not, she'll just grow closer to the rebound. But me staying friends atm is NOT an option, I refuse to be her safety net!

She loves me very dearly, but I guess she got fed up with everything. She was even crying when she told me she wanted to be friends..

No offense taken man, it's only the truth. I feel like she does like me except I need to change my bad habits. Who knows, maybe I'll win her back maybe I won't. I sure hope I do though, because if not, I'll never find another girl like her.

mabee remain as friends, unless you really love her try to get her back i wish you luck !

Memories stay with you for ever, growing up, you meet a lot of people and don't always stay in contact. But i think, there is a high chance, you can get her back, just dont rush things and get mad about the guy she is seeing because at the end of the day she finished you. Maybe she finished you for him ?

I won't rush things I'm gonna try my best to take things slow. I'm gonna give her time to miss me and clear her head of the negativity. And she met the guy a week after we broke up, I know for sure. So then he's just filling in for me, hope they don't last very long because I love this girl to death and would literally do anything to win her back..



Most people have tried that method but eventually they get friend zoned and only used as a "shoulder to lean on". I actually felt that about to happen so I backed off. She leaned on me when things weren't right and I'm like wow I'm just a benchwarmer of some sort!

But thanks for the kind response bro, and thanks everyone for the kind responses. I enjoy getting everyone's feedback here, they're very mature and very honest. Makes me feel better about myself!

Dont ever give up mate and wish you all the luck

Thanks man I appreciate it. She isn't just gonna forget about me and move on so easily because we have a really amazing time when we're hanging out in person. So much good memories, yet so sad..