Just learn from lessons and move on mate. Hard but do it!
Yeah true that man it's really difficult but I've learned my lesson. I will apply it when I find someone else, or even if when I get back with her.
Originally posted by JP
First of all if you were a **** you don't deserve her. If she wants you back you need to not cut all contact with her cause then she's going to find someone else and move on not miss you.. oh and don't be a **** again.
I wasn't a total douchebag to her. The reason I wasn't giving her the attention and the reason I was mean to her at times was because of an event that happened in her past which I couldn't get over. It's pathetic of me to dwell on it, eventually I just became an ass. I never hit her but I yelled at her and stuff. So no, I wasn't a complete monster to her. She liked me for the sweet loving me. That part of me just faded off but I'm slowly gaining my old self back. This animal right now isn't me at all. She even said I'm "okay" as a person, that I'm not bad at all. It was the way I changed and the way I handled things.
To some people, I may not deserve her. But to me, I feel like I deserve at least another chance. And that's when I change my attitude and my behavior.